You need to oil your hinges
" Big doors swing on small hinges."
I find this thought so wonderful.
It so happens that we don't see the hinges on the door. Either we don't notice or we overlooked them. Although they are small in size yet without them the door will not swing.
Our attitudes, too are kind of our hinges on which our life doors swing.
The wrong or improper attitude will cause wear and tear. If not taken care of at the right time it will drop the door down or hang it in between, unsafe.
We can't control life's happenings whether negative or positive.
Those are life's variables not in our control. What we can do is how to cope up with them.
To keep our attitude intact, you need to oil your hinges.